Dating Advice: ASK DAVID & ROZ
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Welcome to dating advice from David & Roz.
We've been writing this dating advice column for a while now and we're getting great feedback about how its helping people.
So keep those dating questions coming and we'll keep giving you the advice you need to succeed in love.
Who are we?
Well David is an attractive bachelor, restaurateur, active, athletic, 55 and very wise in the way of the dating world.
Roz, a widow of a certain age, a business woman, racehorse owner and breeder who is well-traveled, interested and interesting is also here to give you a hand.
Collectively we've been dating for over 100 years!
We will answer any dating question you have, so send it in.
Use the form at the bottom of the page to email us whatever you have on your mind.
So withoput further ado, here are the latest and greatest of the questions we've received.
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Dear David and Roz,
"I am widow for 3 years, after 40 years of marriage. The problems I find older men want younger girls. What can I do?"
- Judy in central Illinois
ROZ SAYS:
Dear Judy,
There will always be older men who want younger girls and you don't want that kind. To my mind they are insecure and feel they need that crutch to strut their masculinity. The right kind of men treasure an older woman who knows how to care for them and treat them right and a woman of experience such as you are certainly knows how to take care of her man. So ignore those wrong guys and once you know what you're looking for you'll see they will come your way. Just keep your eyes open and lots of doors will open. Good luck.
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DAVID SAYS:
Dear Judy in Central Illinois,
Right outside Chicago is a place called Illinois where I imagine a good woman is prized for all her qualities including her common sense approach to life which comes with experience. Things are changing, especially for women who have kept their positive attitudes, youthful personalities & attempt to stay healthy through proper nutrition, exercise and always looking to expand their horizons with stimulating interests. Equipped with that type of fire power, a sense of confidence, a genuine warm and caring personality there is no reason why you can't compete with the younger mares. First of all younger women can be a perilous venture for the male especially if he is looking for a lifetime partner. It's not about age but what you have done and experienced and what you are planning to do in the future. The world stands aside for those who know where they are going & the right man will appreciate your vitality and zest for life, your attraction to him and the sense of order, companionship and direction you will be able to bring to his life. After all neither of you are out to biologically conceive a second family It's your special life force that counts and your vision for the future, that's the biggest turn-on not the date on your birth certificate. So keep your confidence up, your eyes open and your light shining bright for all to see.
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Dear David and Roz,
"I have a lovely lady in my life. We're both in our 60's which is great because we share a lot of the same interests, remembering the same things, and we're comfortable with each other which is the way I like it. We're also both grandparents many times over. Here's the problem: I'm a big sports fan. I like nothing better than going to a game, whatever. She's been going with me. But I get the feeling her hearts not in it, and that spoils it for me. She says she enjoys it, but I think she's fibbing. I worry that once we're married the truth will come out and it won't be what I want to know. I don't know how I'd feel if that were the case because other than family this is what I get the most kick out of in life. It would ruin everything for me. What do I do?"
- Martin
ROZ SAYS:
Dear Martin,
Most women understand the men in their lives like to sit in front of the TV with a beer and sandwich or something and watch a game on a Sunday afternoon when they think they could be doing something better. At least your lady is giving it a good try which shows how much you mean to her. It may also be that she does actually enjoy going with you to a game. I used to do that once in a while myself and it was fun, although I had no idea what was going on. To me it looked like they were just running back and forth, but I like the 'wave'. So be happy you found somebody you care about. It'll all work out.
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DAVID SAYS:
Dear Martin,
Please don't take your ball and go home, make a game of it! This seems like an easy fix. First of all there is always a balance between distance and intimacy between two people in love even when they are in the same room. She wouldn't be interesting if she didn't have her own interests and secrets for you to discover. However, if you insist that she be at your side for the games instead of your male buddies then my advice to you is to make the most of it. Turn the big game days into the dance of the seven veils at halftime. Some of my best friends love it when their girls come over in just their sweats to watch games together. Of course you could use your imagination & request or encourage her maybe wear a cheer leading outfit or a loose fitting sweater. If it's warm a bathing suit with high heels or going bare foot might keep it thrilling for both you. Mix it up and spice it up so you both are looking forward to the big game every week or more often depending on your sporting needs.
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