Dating Advice: ASK DAVID & ROZ
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Welcome to dating advice from David & Roz.
We've been writing this dating advice column for a while now and we're getting great feedback about how its helping people.
So keep those dating questions coming and we'll keep giving you the advice you need to succeed in love.
Who are we?
Well David is an attractive bachelor, restaurateur, active, athletic, 55 and very wise in the way of the dating world.
Roz, a widow of a certain age, a business woman, racehorse owner and breeder who is well-traveled, interested and interesting is also here to give you a hand.
Collectively we've been dating for over 100 years!
We will answer any dating question you have, so send it in.
Use the form at the bottom of the page to email us whatever you have on your mind.
So withoput further ado, here are the latest and greatest of the questions we've received.
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Dear David and Roz,
"Politics is driving me crazy. My lady friend of a few years now has gone around the bend by Hillary Clinton. Somehow she feels empowered by her. I’ve always been a loyal Republican, quiet. I vote Republican and that's that. But although my lady and I have always gotten along just great, we are now arguing constantly and it is destroying us I don't think I can take this till November. I don't know what to do. Tell me."
- Unnerved
ROZ SAYS:
Dear Unnerved,
I think you're not the only one with this kind of problem. I sense there's something going on with John Edwards and his wife Elizabeth too. He’s come out for Obama - she hasn’t. We’ll see. But as to you, I think let the lady friend have her feel-good day and look the other way. Try to be objective, and just don't let it get to you. A few clichés here: Everybody has a right to their opinion and this too shall pass! Above all, keep a sense of humor and drink a toast to your lady. It’ll make both of you feel better.
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DAVID SAYS:
Dear Unnerved,
As an optimistic political enthusiast, I welcome the opportunity to discuss and debate the issues openly without prejudices. However, this can be boring and in the worst scenarios fatal to relationships when individuals engaged in the conversation are partisan, uniformed, misinformed or toting the current party positions, hasty generalizations & character assassinations wrung out by the spin masters & bloggers across the media according to today’s marching orders of the party or swift boating private interest groups. In short when debates are interpreted as an assault on your candidate, you and/or your personal value systems something has to give and usually it is not the others’ opinions. So for the rest of the election season make love and not political converts. My advice is to keep in mind that we have a secret ballot except of course and in my opinion unfortunately so in some primary states. Again that is just my opinion.
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Dear David and Roz,
"My girl friend has her eye on a man we both know that is 20 years younger than we are. We’re both divorcees and in our early sixties but look younger and good even though I'm saying that myself! Anyway, I think a man in his forties wouldn't have any real romantic interest in a woman old enough to be his mother. But she flirts with him and he does flirt back - and they did go to a movie together recently, and hamburgers afterward, so I don't know. Ivana Trump just married a much younger guy and he seemed entranced by her in the wedding pictures I saw. What do you think?"
- Curious
ROZ SAYS:
Dear Curious,
To each his own, I say. Once past the age of puberty, who knows! Some women are younger at an older age and some men are older at a younger age and vice versa. Certainly if the age difference doesn't bother them it shouldn't bother you! Maybe he finds her comfortable, somebody he can talk to, and there could be a host of things attracting them to each other. So let it be, and see what happens. Let me know I'm interested. Might try it myself! Only kidding.
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DAVID SAYS:
Dear Curious,
Simply spoken stay on course & don’t confuse companions, friends & activity partners of varying ages with a real well-intended romantic suitor or candidate who is ready, willing and able, as they say, to give much more. I would advise you not to waste much of your fleeting time on the dreams of others and open yourself up to meeting a good man who adores you and wants to build a life together forever into the future. Good luck.
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